You know how to talk dirty to your partner to get their blood pumping, but encourage them to reciprocate by telling you how you're making them feel. 'I like when a guy is whispering in my ear about what he's about to do, that's a really big turn-on,' she adds. We don't mean shouting loud enough for your neighbors to call the cops-most women probably don't make that much noise during sex, says Drake. Just remember that if you're using condoms, use a new one for each act of oral sex or penetration. Going from foreplay to sex and back to oral keeps 'surprising' your impending orgasm, so you never really know when you'll climax (hot, hot, hot!). Sex should never be a linear action, says Drake. This way, she's ready to get back in the game when halftime is over. Drake masturbates between takes to keep herself turned on. When it does, don't let your sex drive stall. Interruptions happen, whether the kids need attention or your partner loses his erection mid-sex. But by no means are the porn stars going at it for that long-people need to catch their breath at some point, and the same goes for you. Get this: A 15-minute to 20-minute porn scene can take at least an hour to create, says Drake. Plus, if you're dressed up as characters, you still want to remember your fantasy throughout your entire romp, she adds.

'The reason we keep our shoes on is because it elongates our legs and pushes our up so that certain positions feel better for you,' says Drake. Sure, it's all pretend, but we bet you'll get way more into your sexy doctor role if you're not in an itchy, uncomfortable polyester dress. 'Something more elaborate shows that you're making the time and effort to dress up and do something special for your partner,' says Drake, who has to prep for movies by wearing some very realistic costumes. MORE: 13 Things That Are Only True in PornĪvoid the always-open costume shop that sells that generic French maid outfit for 50 percent off. So we reached out to Jessica Drake, creator of the DVD series Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex, for some hot and heavy bedroom tips she's learned on set. Because really, when is the pizza delivery guy ever on the same hotness scale as say, Joe Manganiello? But behind all the stereotypes, people who perform in adult films really do know a ton about sex-it is their job, after all.

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